We are the Stuarts (formerly of Imperial) now residing in Okinawa, Japan.

This blog started from a desire to bridge the miles as we were preparing to leave the USA for 3+ years. It has turned into much more. It's part travel diary, part personal reflection, part "sociology of military life" and part mommy-blog. We hope you read something here that is interesting to you (or at least not a total waste of your time).

Saturday, February 13, 2010

The Gift of a Perfectly Ordinary Day


My friend Molly emailed me a link to this yesterday.  She was right..I loved it.  But it was funny that she sent it to me and then called and told me to watch it, when I was supposed to be getting ready to meet her (and some other friends) for lunch.

After you watch it, you'll know why my preparations came to a halt while I sobbed.  I love this mom's writing style...and I can SO relate to her sentiments here.  Ugh, can I relate!  As much as I'm loving the journey...and trying more diligently to live in the moment...it is still SO hard to think of this time coming to an end.  I know it will, and that the next chapter will be good, too...but MAN this is the good stuff!

You can watch it here:



My challenge is to practice letting go while I still have them here...and to try not to resent the intrusions (read:  All the obligations that take them from me or vice-versa) with a fiery passion. 

I'm going to go give them all a hug now...even if they go rigid, or limp...or barely hug me back.

1 comment:

Melissa (Catlin) Kiser said...

sob, sob. thanks for the reminder to slow down and not be so quick to wish they were asleep from another "ordinary day". i always wish they could do more, communicate better, be older. in the same breath i'm always telling them not to grow older and to stay young. i can't believe one day they will be GONE! thanks for the good cry.